What things you should say (and not say) in an argument?
What things you should say (and not say) in an argument? 18 January 2025 | Active Listening, Best Practice, Communication, Conversation, Leadership, Negotiation, Personal Development, Question a Day, Relationships Question a Day What to Say (and Not Say) in an Argument: Master the Art of Disagreeing Gracefully Arguments can be as tricky as assembling IKEA furniture without instructions. You want to emerge with something functional, not broken spirits. Whether you're navigating a disagreement with a partner, colleague, or friend, here’s how to speak effectively—and what phrases to banish from your vocabulary. What You Should Say 1. "I feel…" Statements What to say: "I feel hurt when my opinions are dismissed." Why: This centers the conversation on your emotions rather than casting blame, inviting empathy rather than defensiveness. 2. "Can we find a solution together?" What to say: "How can we make this better for both of us?" Why: Coll...