Learn to Think in Color

At what point does delay become loss? How to tell if waiting is wisdom—or self-sabotage Big picture framing We like to say we’re “waiting for the right moment,” but there’s a quiet tipping point where  delay becomes loss : lost opportunities, momentum, and trust. The hard part is that this line is rarely marked; it’s more like a dimmer switch than an on/off button. In this article, we’ll unpack how to recognize when delay becomes loss in your work, relationships, and goals, and when long delays are not only okay but strategically essential. You’ll see how to weigh opportunity cost , when “loss” is actually a useful filter, and how to make cleaner calls about whether to pause or move. Why delay is not neutral We often treat delay as a “do nothing” option—safe, reversible, low risk. But delay is never neutral. Every time you wait, you’re trading: Option value  – some choices expire or shrink over time. Momentum  – energy decays; what feels easy now can feel heavy in a month...

Why do well-intended fixes often make the original problem worse? How good intentions quietly backfire—and when quick fixes actually help Big Picture When we rush in with well-intended fixes, we often tug one thread of a system and accidentally tighten knots somewhere else. These “helpful” moves—extra rules, new incentives, bigger roads, more meetings—can actually amplify the very problems we’re trying to solve. The core issue isn’t that people don’t care; it’s that we underestimate how interconnected and adaptive systems really are. Below, we’ll unpack why well-intended fixes backfire, when fast, simple fixes  do  make sense, and how to design interventions that actually make things better instead of just moving the mess. In one sentence Good intentions without systems thinking often turn small problems into bigger, harder-to-see ones. The paradox of good intentions If intent were all that mattered, most organizational and personal problems would be solved by now. A manager a...

  Was social media ever really social? How our “connected” platforms quietly rewired what it means to be together Big Picture Box Social media promised connection at scale — friendships across distance, communities without borders, conversation at the speed of light. Yet the average user now spends  around 2 hours and 20 minutes a day  on these platforms, making social feeds one of the biggest slices of our online lives. That raises a harder question:  was social media ever really social, or was it always something else dressed up as connection?  In this piece, we’ll look at how  social media  started as digital community spaces, how platforms optimized for attention over relationship, and what “being social” actually means when algorithms sit in the middle. We’ll also touch on data showing the rise of private messaging and slower, niche communities that hint at a different way to be online. What do we mean by “social” in the first place? At its core, ...